"And for that reason, four years later, I’m trying to get myself to stop hating him…
If it was rape, no one would take me seriously me anyways because I was drunk as shit and after all, I had invited him in, hadn’t I?
Drunkenness is not an excuse for rape; it’s an alibi.
He doesn’t know he’s a rapist because society has taught him that drunk girls like me who come on to you are asking for it; they’re probably sluts who throw themselves at dudes all the time; they deserve it.
He doesn’t know he’s a rapist because, like I did at first, he believes that if he doesn’t physically hurt someone, it’s not considered rape.”